MEN ALONE

Another selling point for the kind of vacation I’m talking about is that—equal rights be dammed—there are times when men need the company of male friends. There’s some kind of primitive magic in returning  to the circle of your own kind, and there’s no need to feel guilty about that, either. Up in Minnesota, the big attraction of ice fishing is basically that guy can go out there and sit in a hut, drink beer and get away from women for a while. The fact that we seem to have lost sight of this shows just how alienated from ourselves we really are.
But, hey, I’m not here to pick a fight. I’m here to get you to go with me.
Core Sound was mostly sandy-bottomed and shallow, dotted with little grassy islands riotous with birds. Jim rowed, I fished. In the still, dark water among the islands, I hooked three little ones with a golden spoon, then released them. Across the water, on Shackleford Banks, wild ponies romped along the beach, filthy and ragged and free. Around us, ominous-looking weather cells swirled and eddied darkly. Occasionally the darkness unleashed rain, then it would slow to a patter and stop. If a squall blew up, we could beach the boat on one of the islands, we figured. But for the hour and a half it took to cross, the storm gave us a break. At twilight, we beached the boat on the lee side of Cape Lookout and made camp back among the pines.
Dragging our gear up out of the boat, I sloshed through the outgoing tide, clear and warm as bathwater. If it didn’t rain, we’d get a fire going up above the tide mark. Already my skin was beginning to feel briny and coarse from sun and wind and spray. In the pent-up, citified muscles of my back and shoulders, snaps and buckles and hooks seemed to be coming undone. I took a deep, deep breath, as if I were about to take a long, cool drink of water.
I’d come back to the well.